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How to Find the Best Doula in Chicago: Interview Questions

You've found some doulas to interview that might be the right fit. You've scheduled some interviews. Now what? Awkward conversations are...

Pregnancy

Melissa F. Haley

Mar 26, 20244 min read

How Will My Relationship Change in Postpartum?

Internet forums for new moms have a lot of resentment directed at husbands. Is this true for every relationship, even LGBTQ+...

Melissa F. Haley

Mar 25, 20243 min read

How to Find the Best Doula in Chicago: Agency v. Independent

Finding the right doula for you is so important. The key is that the right doula for you might not be the right doula for someone else....

Pregnancy

Melissa F. Haley

Mar 24, 20243 min read

LGBTQ+ Second Parent Adoption in Illinois: Resources to Get Started

Before getting into it, let me just say you are NOT a "second" parent and I think the necessity of second parent, co-parent, or...

LGBTQ+

Melissa F. Haley

Mar 18, 20247 min read

Does Belly Oil for Pregnancy Stretch Marks Work? A Recipe & Ritual

Many pregnant people grapple with their bodies changing during pregnancy. For queer pregnant people, feelings of body dysphoria can...

Recipes & DIY

Melissa F. Haley

Mar 15, 20244 min read

Hot Labor Tips for Queer Partners

Maybe you are thinking that you are a fantastic partner and you don't need help. You know that support during labor is crucial for the...

Birth

Melissa F. Haley

Mar 11, 20242 min read

What does a doula DO-la?

I mentioned that I was feeling sore after a birth to my father-in-law and he looked confused. "How are you sore?! Aren't you a liaison at...

Birth

Melissa F. Haley

Mar 9, 20246 min read

Why are doulas so expensive?

Chicago doulas typically charge anywhere from $1200-2800+ per birth. That can give anyone sticker shock! Over a thousand dollars for a...

Birth

Melissa F. Haley

Mar 8, 20244 min read

A Guide for Queers Considering Conception in Chicago

If you have a uterus and are looking for sperm, this is a good place to start. Whether you are just starting to think about it or already...

Fertility & TTC

Melissa F. Haley

Mar 7, 20245 min read

Placenta Encapsulation Process at Wyld Garden

Placenta encapsulation has become more mainstream, with about 20% of my clients choosing to have their placenta processed. In this blog...

Postpartum

Melissa F. Haley

Mar 4, 20244 min read

Why Did I Become a Doula?

When I was 6, I looked at my mom and said, "You're pregnant." She looked shocked and asked how I knew. She had just found out herself. Doula work came for me early. Fun fact: I can still usually tell when someone is pregnant, which got me into a bit of trouble in my 20s when I would blurt to people before they told me. I would just be so excited! I've come a long way since then and keep my lips zipped until people are ready to share their news. Your secret is safe with me ;)

Melissa F. Haley

Mar 3, 20244 min read