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Why You Should Add a Birth Photographer to Your Care Team!
Have you been considering preserving your birth story through professional birth photography? It's a life event that cannot be...
Erin Loughlin
Aug 5, 20243 min read
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Why You Should Get a Doula (and why that doula should be Mel)
(No, they did not ask me to write this:) After interviewing two doulas and reading over fifty birth stories, personally, I am convinced...
Hadley Roberts, Intern
Jul 29, 20245 min read
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Sleeping with an InfantÂ
Sleeping with your infant is a unique struggle, but this is because it is also a unique time in their life when their minds, souls, and...
Hadley Roberts, Intern
Jul 22, 20246 min read
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Induction Junction, What's Your Function?
Inductions seem to be on the rise as the percentage of inductions has risen by almost 10% from 2007 to 2017(25.5%), with a more recent...
Hadley Roberts, Intern
Jul 15, 20244 min read
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What a Postpartum Doula Can and Can't DoÂ
Getting to the postpartum period means you and your family now have a new, miraculous baby with their own needs, emotions, and schedule....
Hadley Roberts, Intern
Jul 8, 20244 min read
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Gender Identity and Pronouns in the Hospital During Birth
What is the issue? Feel free to skip this section if you already know Getting medical professionals to respect patients’ pronouns is one...
Hadley Roberts, Intern
Jul 1, 20245 min read
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Is Placenta Encapsulation Dangerous?
I've had three families cancel placenta encapsulation this month. It's totally up to you if you want to have placenta pills and I don't...
Melissa F. Haley
Jun 27, 20247 min read
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Benefits of Having a Doula
Well, first, what is a doula? What are the different types of doulas? Doulas’ work across the many types can be generally described under...
Hadley Roberts, Intern
Jun 24, 20244 min read
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Hi, I'm Hadley! Wyld Garden's Summer Intern
Hello. My name is Hadley Roberts(any), and I will be working with Mel this summer as an intern for Wyld Garden. I am a rising sophomore...
Hadley Roberts, Intern
Jun 17, 20241 min read
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Best LGBTQ+ Books: Trying To Conceive (TTC)
Happy Pride! I am more of a Pride-is-everyday and inclusive-is-good-for-everyone kinda guy, but who can resist a post with all the best...
Melissa F. Haley
Jun 11, 20244 min read
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Places to Give Birth in Chicago: Illinois Masonic
Part 2 of my series about places to give birth in and around the Chicago area features Advocate Illinois Masonic Hospital. Illinois...
Melissa F. Haley
Jun 3, 20244 min read
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Cord Blood Banking: Is it Worth It?
Chrissy Teigen banks her kids' cord blood, should you? Many families have heard of cord blood banking through targeted ads and influencer...
Melissa F. Haley
May 20, 20244 min read
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Choosing a Sperm Donor: Known Donor
A known donor is anyone who you find without using a sperm bank. They don't necessarily have to be someone you "know" deeply to be...
Melissa F. Haley
May 6, 20245 min read
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Baby Carrier Review: Meh Dai
I love baby wearing! The benefits seem to be endless: bonding and co-regulating, a baby who cries less often, fewer missed hunger cues....
Melissa F. Haley
Apr 29, 20242 min read
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What is in My Birth Doula Bag?
Want a sneak peak into what I bring with me to every birth? This is the bag that sits ready by the door at all times. Ultimately, my...
Melissa F. Haley
Apr 24, 20246 min read
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Should You Drink Red Raspberry Leaf Tea? When?
Does red raspberry leaf tea (RRL) work to induce labor? If it can start labor, should you be really careful about when you drink it for...
Melissa F. Haley
Apr 15, 20243 min read
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Places to Give Birth In Chicago: Birth Center of Chicago
There are so many places to give birth in Chicago. I'm starting off this series with a review of one of my all time favorites! BCC is...
Melissa F. Haley
Apr 8, 20246 min read
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Ready to Start Your Family? How to Choose a Sperm Donor
I have noticed that once people with access to eggs and a uterus decide to start a family, the donor search quickly takes center stage....
Melissa F. Haley
Apr 4, 20245 min read
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What Does a Doula do at a Home Birth?
Occasionally someone reaches out to me and shares that they are planning to deliver at home in the Chicago area unassisted by any medical...
Melissa F. Haley
Mar 28, 20244 min read
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How to Find the Best Doula in Chicago: Interview Questions
You've found some doulas to interview that might be the right fit. You've scheduled some interviews. Now what? Awkward conversations are...
Melissa F. Haley
Mar 26, 20244 min read
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How Will My Relationship Change in Postpartum?
Internet forums for new moms have a lot of resentment directed at husbands. Is this true for every relationship, even LGBTQ+...
Melissa F. Haley
Mar 25, 20243 min read
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How to Find the Best Doula in Chicago: Agency v. Independent
Finding the right doula for you is so important. The key is that the right doula for you might not be the right doula for someone else....
Melissa F. Haley
Mar 24, 20243 min read
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LGBTQ+ Second Parent Adoption in Illinois: Resources to Get Started
Before getting into it, let me just say you are NOT a "second" parent and I think the necessity of second parent, co-parent, or...
Melissa F. Haley
Mar 18, 20247 min read
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Does Belly Oil for Pregnancy Stretch Marks Work? A Recipe & Ritual
Many pregnant people grapple with their bodies changing during pregnancy. For queer pregnant people, feelings of body dysphoria can...
Melissa F. Haley
Mar 15, 20244 min read
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